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Throughout these 16 days of activism, several important dates will be commemorated: the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, World AIDS Day, the International Day of Persons with Disabilities, the anniversary of the Montreal Massacre, when we in Serbia remember the victims of femicide, and finally, Human Rights Day. Every day during this period, we will hear more than usual about the discrimination of women, violence, and gender inequality. We will take a brief pause for the holidays, when families gather together, but in households where violence exists, the holiday atmosphere is far from pleasant\u2014tensions rise, and the risk of further escalation looms. In fact, the first two femicides of the past year occurred on Christmas Day.<\/span><\/p>\n

After this brief pause, we will revisit the rights and position of women on March 8th and take another, this time longer, break.<\/span><\/p>\n

The systemic refusal to take responsibility for past events has spilled over into the present, so now, when it comes to violence against women, all we seem to do is flip through tabloids. We are increasingly shocked by the bizarre details of how and why a man has killed or harmed his partner, mother, daughter, or acquaintance.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many questions: why violence against women, how is it possible that violence happens, what exactly constitutes violence, why didn\u2019t she leave earlier, why didn\u2019t she report it, how do we reintegrate all the women who have survived violence into society\u2014yet the answers cannot fit into 16 days. They wouldn\u2019t fit into a year either, because working with people doesn\u2019t involve predetermined protocols and exact answers. What has been deteriorating for years cannot be fixed in one day, nor in 16 days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Data from the global homicide study by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime shows that, although women account for about 19% of all homicide victims, they represent a much higher percentage of those killed by an intimate or family partner compared to men\u201464%.<\/span><\/p>\n

Violence against women represents a series of violated human rights. It is an abuse of power for the purpose of control. Violence doesn\u2019t necessarily occur because someone cannot control their actions or has a mental disorder. Often, the reason is simply “because they can,” and the system gives it a green light.<\/span><\/p>\n

Violence does not begin overnight, and it is often difficult to recognize. When we talk about gender-based violence from the perspective of social responsibility, it is always preceded by the discrimination of women and girls. These are the situations that have created fertile ground for violence to go unrecognized: when she was told it\u2019s not ladylike for a girl to get angry or shout, when she had to cross her legs in a skirt because that\u2019s how ladies behave, when her ideas were devalued simply because her classmate had a “better” one, just because he was a boy, when she thought she was stupid because she wasn\u2019t as good at things where boys excel, when she couldn\u2019t say “no” because it was assumed to be her duty. Discrimination encompasses all the situations in which women could not fully realize their potential, many of them unaware of the rights they were deprived of.<\/span><\/p>\n

Turning away from violence and deciding that “I will no longer tolerate this” is not easy. It\u2019s not easy because on the day he attacked her, she wore a short skirt and didn\u2019t cross her legs. Because she left home to be with him. Because she changed her faith to be with him. Because she stopped hanging out with all her friends because he made scenes in public. Because she lost her job as he constantly checked where she was and showed up at her workplace. Because she stopped working, as it was her job to take care of the children, and he would take care of everything else. Because he threatened to commit suicide if she left him. Because they told her it wasn\u2019t fair for a child to grow up without a father. Because she believed she was really at fault, because, as we know, “it takes two to fight.” Because, just like all of us sometimes, she found it difficult to stand up for herself. And this is a skill that is especially hard to learn in a society that does not nurture critical thinking and a thirst for truth and justice.<\/span><\/p>\n

For every woman to return to the life she once had, similar to the one before the violence\u2014<\/span>we all need to be involved.<\/b> It is our responsibility to treat men and women equally, to step forward and react when we witness violence, to listen to someone without judgment. It is our responsibility to seek answers to the questions of why institutions didn\u2019t act differently and to ask how we can help.<\/span><\/p>\n

The answer to the question “why” is simple\u2014<\/span>because everyone has the right to live a life free from violence.<\/b><\/p>\n

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– Maja Milo\u0161evi\u0107<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Every November 25th marks the beginning of 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. Although the phrase “against” has long been in use, I prefer the word “towards,” because, perhaps illusorily, it evokes an image of equality. 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