{"id":17891,"date":"2024-11-28T17:42:47","date_gmt":"2024-11-28T16:42:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yihr.rs\/?p=17891"},"modified":"2024-11-28T17:46:45","modified_gmt":"2024-11-28T16:46:45","slug":"malo-je-16-dana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yihr.rs\/bhs\/malo-je-16-dana\/","title":{"rendered":"Malo je 16 dana"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tokom 16 dana aktivizma obele\u017ei\u0107e se nekoliko va\u017enih datuma: Me\u0111unarodni dan borbe protiv nasilja nad \u017eenama, Svetski dan borbe protiv AIDS-a, Me\u0111unarodni dan osoba sa invaliditetom, godi\u0161njica Montrealskog masakra, kada u Srbiji obele\u017eavamo se\u0107anje na \u017ertve femicida, i na kraju, Me\u0111unarodni dan ljudskih prava. Svaki dan tokom ovog perioda slu\u0161a\u0107emo vi\u0161e nego ina\u010de o diskriminaciji \u017eena, nasilju i rodnoj neravnopravnosti. Napravi\u0107emo malu pauzu za praznike, kada je porodica na okupu i kada, zapravo, u porodicama u kojima ima nasilja, \u010desto ne postoji prijatna prazni\u010dna atmosfera, ve\u0107 rastu tenzije i rizik od dalje eskalacije nasilja. O tome, recimo, govori podatak da su se prva dva femicida pro\u0161le godine dogodila ba\u0161 na Bo\u017ei\u0107.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nakon ove kratke pauze, ponovo \u0107emo se osvrnuti na prava i polo\u017eaj \u017eena tokom 8. marta i ponovo napraviti, ovaj put malo du\u017eu, pauzu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sistemsko nepreuzimanje odgovornosti za doga\u0111aje iz pro\u0161losti prelilo se i postalo manir za doga\u0111aje iz sada\u0161njosti, pa je tako \u2013 kada je o nasilju nad \u017eenama re\u010d \u2013 jedino \u0161to u poslednje vreme radimo listanje tabloida. Sve se vi\u0161e iznena\u0111ujemo bizarnostima o tome \u010dime je i na koji na\u010din mu\u0161karac ubio ili povredio svoju partnerku, majku, \u0107erku, poznanicu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mnogo je pitanja \u2013 za\u0161to ba\u0161 nasilje prema \u017eenama, kako je mogu\u0107e da se nasilje doga\u0111a, \u0161ta je sve nasilje, za\u0161to nije ranije oti\u0161la, za\u0161to nije prijavila, kako da sve \u017eene koje su pre\u017eivele nasilje integri\u0161emo u dru\u0161tvo \u2013 a odgovori ne mogu stati u 16 dana. Ne bi mogli stati ni u godinu dana, jer rad sa ljudima ne podrazumeva da postoje unapred odre\u0111eni protokoli i ta\u010dni odgovori. Ne\u0161to \u0161to se uru\u0161avalo godinama, ne mo\u017ee biti popravljeno za jedan, niti za 16 dana.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podaci globalne studije o homicidu Kancelarije Ujedinjenih nacija za drogu i kriminal pokazuju da, iako \u017eene zauzimaju oko 19 odsto u op\u0161tim podacima o homicidu, one ipak zauzimaju daleko ve\u0107i udeo kao \u017ertve ubistava od strane intimnog\/porodi\u010dnog partnera u odnosu na mu\u0161karce \u2013 64 odsto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nasilje prema \u017eenama podrazumeva snop prekr\u0161enih ljudskih prava. Ono je zloupotreba mo\u0107i zarad ostvarivanja kontrole. Do nasilja ne dolazi nu\u017eno zbog toga \u0161to neko te\u0161ko kontroli\u0161e svoje postupke ili zato \u0161to ima mentalno oboljenje. \u010cesto je razlog \u201ejer mu se mo\u017ee\u201c, na \u0161ta sistem daje zeleno svetlo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nasilje ne po\u010dinje preko no\u0107i i naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e ga nije lako prepoznati. Ako govorimo o rodno zasnovanom nasilju iz ugla dru\u0161tvene odgovornosti, njemu uvek prethodi diskriminacija \u017eena i devoj\u010dica. To su sve one situacije koje su stvorile plodno tlo da se nasilje ne prepozna \u2013 kada su joj rekli da nije lepo da se devoj\u010dica ljuti i vi\u010de, kada je morala da prekrsti noge u suknji jer se tako pona\u0161aju dame, kada su njeni predlozi bili manje vrednovani jer je drug iz razreda imao \u201ebolji\u201c, samo zato \u0161to je de\u010dak, kada je mislila da je glupa samo zato \u0161to nije bila jednako dobra u poljima gde su de\u010daci najbolji, kada nije mogla da ka\u017ee \u201ene\u201c jer se podrazumevalo da je ne\u0161to njena obaveza. Diskriminacija podrazumeva sve situacije u kojima \u017eene nisu mogle da ostvare svoje mogu\u0107nosti, tako da na neke od njih nisu bile ni svesne da imaju prava.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nasilju nije lako okrenuti le\u0111a i doneti odluku da \u201eja to vi\u0161e ne\u0107u da trpim\u201c. Zato \u0161to je tog dana, kada ju je napao, nosila kratku suknju i nije prekrstila noge. Zato \u0161to je oti\u0161la od ku\u0107e kako bi bila sa njim. Zato \u0161to je promenila veru da bi bila sa njim. Zato \u0161to je prestala da se dru\u017ei sa svim prijateljicama jer joj je on pravio neprijatne scene u dru\u0161tvu. Zato \u0161to je dobila otkaz na poslu jer je neprestano proveravao gde je i dolazio na mesto gde radi. Zato \u0161to je prestala da radi jer je njeno da brine o deci, a on \u0107e svakako da se pobrine za sve ostalo. Zato \u0161to joj je pretio da \u0107e \u2013 ako ga ostavi \u2013 izvr\u0161iti samoubistvo. Zato \u0161to su joj rekli da nije fer da dete odrasta bez oca. Zato \u0161to je verovala da je stvarno sama kriva, jer je, kao \u0161to znamo, \u201ei za sva\u0111u potrebno dvoje\u201c. Jer joj je, kao i svima nama ponekad, bilo te\u0161ko da se zauzme za sebe. A ovu ve\u0161tinu je naro\u010dito te\u0161ko nau\u010diti u dru\u0161tvu koje ne neguje kriti\u010dko mi\u0161ljenje i \u017eelju za istinom i pravdom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Da bi se svaka \u017eena vratila u uobi\u010dajeni tok svog \u017eivota, sli\u010dan onom koji je imala pre nasilja \u2013 potrebni smo svi mi. Na\u0161a je odgovornost da li \u0107emo se jednako postavljati prema mu\u0161karcima i \u017eenama, da li \u0107emo i sami umeti da istupimo i odreagujemo kada vidimo nasilje, da li \u0107emo uspeti da saslu\u0161amo nekog bez osu\u0111ivanja. Na\u0161a odgovornost je da tra\u017eimo odgovor na pitanja za\u0161to institucije nisu postupile druga\u010dije i da postavimo pitanje kako mo\u017eemo da pomognemo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Odgovor na pitanje za\u0161to \u2013 zato \u0161to svako ima pravo na \u017eivot bez nasilja.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Maja Milo\u0161evi\u0107<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Svakog 25. novembra po\u010dinje 16 dana aktivizma protiv nasilja nad \u017eenama. Iako je izraz \u201enad\u201c ve\u0107 odavno u upotrebi, radije koristim re\u010d \u201eprema\u201c, jer mi ona, ponekad mo\u017eda iluzorno, stvara sliku ravnopravnosti. Biram da verujem da se iz nasilja mo\u017ee iza\u0107i i da je dru\u0161tvo spremno da odbaci stege nametnutih patrijarhalnih vrednosti i iskora\u010di ka ravnopravnosti svih \u010dlanova i \u010dlanica ovog dru\u0161tva.","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17892,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Malo je 16 dana - YIHR.rs<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/yihr.rs\/bhs\/malo-je-16-dana\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Malo je 16 dana - YIHR.rs\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Svakog 25. novembra po\u010dinje 16 dana aktivizma protiv nasilja nad \u017eenama. 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